By their very nature, you can’t plan for unexpected delays. If you control things like the weather, you don’t need to worry about anything because you have power beyond measure and should feel beyond the financial concerns this may raise. For the rest of us mere mortals, delays are a bridge you’ll eventually have to cross.

If you want to minimize the chance that these delays implode your entire itinerary, be strategic about your travel times and make sure your layovers leave enough room for error. If a connecting flight will be leaving in under an hour in an airport you aren’t familiar with, maybe shop around for a different configuration that will give you more time to navigate. Jet lag doesn’t care about your plans and it can strike you at the exact worst moment in terms of your trip. Miss one flight and it can cause you to enter and stay in panic mode long enough to ruin your entire experience.

Most of these tips are about utilizing a little common sense and prudence during the planning stages of your travels, helping you avoid as much of the unexpected as can be, well, expected.

I see the irony of posting this as a precaution on a travel blog and as someone who intends to make a living talking about traveling and reaching as many people as possible. I am willing to be an out-loud hypocrite on this because I believe there are degrees of this type of behavior.

The kind I am specifically referencing and turning my nose up at is the kind where the person will push through a crowd with a phone attached to a selfie stick, ignoring everyone they brush out of the way while recording their most recent masterpiece. It is a complete disregard for everyone else who is there in person and interested in viewing the sight for themselves.

I believe that being a courteous person is more important than the bump you might get in metrics for the content you create by barging in and asserting yourself as the most important person on the scene. But I do get it as a person vying for attention from a faceless mass of people. You have to take some chances and be willing to have people look at you like you’re the asshole.

In general, do your best not to be an asshole, and if you are planning on making content, scout your locations ahead of time and make an educated guess when to shoot. Leave a window of time before and after your proposed filming times for the inevitable crowds because it allows you to show some grace and create in a way that doesn’t inconvenience others.

We have all seen horror stories by now showing unruly, typically drunk passengers on airplanes who are refusing to comply with the flight crew’s requests. The pilot gets involved and begins issuing commands, the person becomes increasingly agitated, and if the plane is in the air, it may even make an unscheduled detour to disembark the problem passenger before proceeding.

This gets amplified by social media 1,000 fold and that person will make or break themselves in how they respond.

What I feel isn’t up for debate is the behavior itself taking place at all. I understand that traveling is stressful, and to have rules and regulations imposed upon you is an additional strain, but those rules and regulations are in place to protect the rest of us from your bad day turning into our last one. We all know these rules by now and they are just a fact of life. If you want to travel anywhere interesting that requires a flight, just suck it up and you’ll be there in no time, no incident required.

If you’re one of the unintentional witnesses to this kind of behavior, try and have just a little bit of compassion. For the sake of basic decency, don’t record it and put the person on blast, because you don’t have the first clue about what that person may be going through. The relevant authorities will handle the situation and you can get back to your travels, hopefully without distractions. Feel free to tell the story as a lighthearted anecdote but that’s all the more reach it needs.

No matter how many people you think there will be at the famous thing you traveled across the globe for, double the number twice. Your one-of-a-kind plan to be there at the perceived “down” time will end the same as someone who visits a popular thing on a whim.

Dealing with crowds is just part of the experience and you have to find a way to accept them as a fact. When a country has a feature worth visiting, people will travel absurd distances to see it. A great case in point is right here in the United States. We have 63 national parks that rack up millions of visitors every year collectively and these visitors come from all over the world.

You can just bet that no matter when you arrive, there will be a crowd, and it is best to reframe how you think about this situation. You get to share this experience with other human beings, potentially from a place radically different than where you come from. It is an opportunity to learn how citizens from around the world engage with the sights offered by countries that are not their homeland. It can give you a greater appreciation for how to best attend the places of interest in your own country.

I have found it is best to visit the popular places prepared to wait your turn to witness them firsthand. Be polite and allow others their moment to the best of your ability. It’s a fantastic way to build your patience. The world doesn’t owe you anything, and this includes preferred treatment at sights of significance.

We will have a series of posts dedicated to what travel entails in the best circumstances, but we will also cover the less-than-ideal circumstances with a category called “Travel is also…“.

Just as an example:

Travel is a lot of planning to ensure that you arrive at your departures on time, but it’s also all of the obstacles that will seem to be thrown in your way when you are cutting it close. Time will compress to seem non-existent in these moments and you will feel excess pressure. You can do yourself a huge favor by considering all of these potentially devastating detours ahead of time so that when you arrive early without incident you’ll feel relaxed and ready to engage fully with the experience.

These will be examples of real-life stumbling blocks we’ve encountered or those from the community. They’ll be short and sweet posts to remind you of the importance of remaining flexible and ready to pivot in case something unexpected happens.

Spoiler alert: Something unexpected always happens. You can’t be ready for everything, that isn’t realistic. But you can condition yourself to become desensitized to the infinite number of things that could go wrong.